Surviving Domestic Abuse: Arising From Self-Pity


Written by Kudakwashe Nyakudya The impact of Domestic Violence & Abuse (DVA) on survivors take a huge toll on emotional & psychological wellbeing, regardless of whether direct emotional & psychological abuse were experienced or not. Reflecting on my personal survival, I know that many survivors like me have gone through different phases of negative mindsets & emotions, … Continue reading Surviving Domestic Abuse: Arising From Self-Pity

The Responsibility Of A Survivor’s Freedom


Written by Kudakwashe Nyakudya Many victims and survivors of  Domestic Violence & Abuse (DVA) desire to be completely free from the social pandemic. Freedom is a great opportunity to experience. However, the key here is where we want to be free to. If freedom is a place or destination, then we need to be intentionally responsible for how … Continue reading The Responsibility Of A Survivor’s Freedom

Finding psychological freedom


Kudakwashe Nyakudya Psychological & emotional abuse are the most devastating, as they rob from victims their full ability to manage their wellbeing & life. I see this type of abuse as the primary form, which also becomes the foundation for any other abuses to exist on. Further more it breaks the spirit of the victim, giving the perpetrator … Continue reading Finding psychological freedom

Fore-giving, Forgiving, & Forgiveness


Written by Kudakwashe Nyakudya Forgiveness is a term regularly used in human life, but it seems everyone has their own understanding of what this is. In my journey of life – especially when emerging from an abusive relationship, I came to develop my own unique understanding of forgiveness in three particular ways. Fore-giving: Fore-giving is … Continue reading Fore-giving, Forgiving, & Forgiveness

“Rediscovering Your Destiny After Overcoming A Life Crisis”


Last Saturday Kudakwashe Nyakudya delivered a very moving and highly informative teaching on “Rediscovering Your Destiny After Overcoming A Life Crisis”. This was at the Inspired Khaya Conference 2014 which was created by fervent author, Vonayi Nyamazana, to inspire international Christian women to change the world through following their dreams and passions. Kudakwashe kick started her teaching by boldly speaking about her … Continue reading “Rediscovering Your Destiny After Overcoming A Life Crisis”

Re-ordering Your Life


written by Kudakwashe Nyakudya One reality of surviving Domestic Violence & Abuse (DVA) is how life crashes due to the consequences of the predicament. For many of us, beginning a new life after fleeing from abusive spouses, implies a beginning of picking up the pieces remaining in life, at that point. Rebuilding and restoration, after the … Continue reading Re-ordering Your Life